I have a question for all you guys (and girls) out there. What makes someone a “freak” – I mean really? Not freak as in weird, I mean freak as in sexual – in the “good” way.

I guess I’ve always thought of myself kind of as a “lady in the streets but a freak in the bed.” I’m a very open person when it comes to sex, and not shy about saying that I like it and when I want and need it in my life. I’m enthusiastic about it and pretty open minded, or so I thought. There are a lot of things I have thought about doing, that I’ve done…or would consider doing.

But, I was recently with someone (an old hook up) who really wanted me to do some things in the bedroom that I wasn’t so sure about. Nothing too bad or weird in the scheme of things (no R. Kelly shit goin on hah), and I did what he wanted to just to try, but I definitely wasn’t really “into” it. Maybe it was because it was something that had never really interested me before, but in the end I think he was a little disappointed in my hesitations. But, I didn’t really expect that he would um, cash in on all the shit I had been talking earlier about what I would do. Ooops. It’s not that I talk shit and don’t deliver the goods, rather I guess I just don’t deviate from what I know is good and what I know works for me and for my partner.

I guess my ego is just a little bruised in that I always thought I was pretty open about anything sex related, but maybe I’m more conventional (and therefore boring) when it comes to sex than I thought.

So, what constitutes being a freak, just being kinky? Doing “weird” things in bed or things that are considered somewhat “taboo”? Or can a freak be someone who is just into sex and not afraid to get it when they want it? Maybe it’s a combination…?

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