Comments on: A Simple Calculation of Love http://www.citysparkledc.com/2006/07/a-simple-calculation-of-love/ A formerly anon blogger, trying to make it honest Mon, 18 Jan 2010 01:26:21 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: Needtsza http://www.citysparkledc.com/2006/07/a-simple-calculation-of-love/#comment-6718 Needtsza Mon, 07 Aug 2006 02:45:00 +0000 http://citysparkle.wordpress.com/2006/07/30/a-simple-calculation-of-love/#comment-6718 where were these girls when I was single? where were these girls when I was single?

]]> By: TooMuchCoffeeLady http://www.citysparkledc.com/2006/07/a-simple-calculation-of-love/#comment-6717 TooMuchCoffeeLady Wed, 02 Aug 2006 16:40:00 +0000 http://citysparkle.wordpress.com/2006/07/30/a-simple-calculation-of-love/#comment-6717 I don't think anyone who isn't IN that relationship can really judge the validity of another person's criteria for an SO. Most people our age are choosing SOs with the notion that long-term (if not marriage) is at least a possibility, and we all have ways we want to live our lives that an SO who didn't fill certain criteria would hold us back from. And honestly, it's the criteria that many consider "superficial" (ie, culture, our core beliefs, ambitions, finances, etc) that end up breaking up couples and marriages if it doesn't mesh. I don’t think anyone who isn’t IN that relationship can really judge the validity of another person’s criteria for an SO. Most people our age are choosing SOs with the notion that long-term (if not marriage) is at least a possibility, and we all have ways we want to live our lives that an SO who didn’t fill certain criteria would hold us back from. And honestly, it’s the criteria that many consider “superficial” (ie, culture, our core beliefs, ambitions, finances, etc) that end up breaking up couples and marriages if it doesn’t mesh.

]]> By: Andrea http://www.citysparkledc.com/2006/07/a-simple-calculation-of-love/#comment-6716 Andrea Tue, 01 Aug 2006 23:02:00 +0000 http://citysparkle.wordpress.com/2006/07/30/a-simple-calculation-of-love/#comment-6716 This was definitely an interesting post and something that I think about all the time in addition to the every curious mystery of how some guys can be with very b!tchy girls who are not even all that physically attractive even. And I'm not saying this as a judgment that I would make myself but one that is a made via general consensus. Who knows? This was definitely an interesting post and something that I think about all the time in addition to the every curious mystery of how some guys can be with very b!tchy girls who are not even all that physically attractive even. And I’m not saying this as a judgment that I would make myself but one that is a made via general consensus. Who knows?

]]> By: Sara http://www.citysparkledc.com/2006/07/a-simple-calculation-of-love/#comment-6715 Sara Tue, 01 Aug 2006 14:17:00 +0000 http://citysparkle.wordpress.com/2006/07/30/a-simple-calculation-of-love/#comment-6715 Great post :) And very true... I threw out my rules and am now with the boy I'm going to marry... So I'm a big advocate for going beyond what you think you want! It opens up a whole world of possiblities And in response to dcvita - I don't think those people are really in love if they're always looking for something better. Great post :) And very true…

I threw out my rules and am now with the boy I’m going to marry… So I’m a big advocate for going beyond what you think you want! It opens up a whole world of possiblities

And in response to dcvita – I don’t think those people are really in love if they’re always looking for something better.

]]> By: Paige Jennifer http://www.citysparkledc.com/2006/07/a-simple-calculation-of-love/#comment-6714 Paige Jennifer Tue, 01 Aug 2006 00:52:00 +0000 http://citysparkle.wordpress.com/2006/07/30/a-simple-calculation-of-love/#comment-6714 I can't believe I'm going to admit this - LC made a brilliant point with that there comment. Nice post. I can’t believe I’m going to admit this – LC made a brilliant point with that there comment. Nice post.

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